Residents in Abuja have expressed mixed opinions on whether poverty or bad spouses are responsible for broken homes.
In separate interviews with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), individuals shared diverse views on the issue on Monday in Abuja.
A civil servant, Mrs. Marian Waluwe, argued that having a bad spouse destroys marriages, citing examples of poor couples living happily.
“Essential needs like food, water, and housing affect marriages, but some poor spouses work hard to provide.”
A trader, Mr. Damian Jari, emphasised the significance of financial stability in marriage, saying, “No one should enter marriage without financial stability. Most family problems stem from inability to meet financial obligations.”
Mr. Francis Idah, also a trader, believed poverty is a greater factor. “When there’s poverty, nothing works in the home, especially if the man is poor. Women may lose patience,” Idah warned.
However, a surveyor, Mr. Ekemini Otong, countered that a toxic spouse could destroy a home faster than poverty.
“An abusive partner can cause emotional damage, loss of confidence, and trust. Poverty, though, can be addressed,” Otong argued. (NAN)
