Are you attending a Yoruba wedding this weekend? Whether you’re a seasoned member of the aso ebi gang, set to slay the weekend, or a first-timer eager to experience the vibrancy of a Yoruba traditional wedding, this guide is for you.
Consider this either a refresher course or a comprehensive primer to ensure you savor every moment of the celebration. Remember, preparation is key to making the most out of any event.
Prepare your attire
Being part of the aso ebi gang, the first item you’ll receive after the wedding invitation is the chosen attire, symbolizing the event’s color theme. Don’t delay in picking a style.
Explore Pinterest or Instagram pages of renowned fashion designers for inspiration. Be sure to choose a design your tailor can realistically execute – many women can relate to the all-too-familiar “what you ordered vs. what you received” scenario.
Select your accessories
Don’t be the person scrambling for accessories at the last minute. Use your free time to hunt for the perfect pieces. From necklaces and bags to watches, mini-fans, shoes (heels are preferable), and stylish glasses, every detail counts when it’s time to slay.
Test your attire
Once your fashion designer has finished your outfit, try it on to ensure a perfect fit. Address any needed alterations promptly to avoid last-minute panic and ensure everything is flawlessly tailored.
Consider a gift for the couple
If you’re close to the couple, a thoughtful gift is a lovely gesture. If you’re not as close or prefer not to, that’s perfectly fine. Instead, focus on capturing memories. Charge your camera, and maybe bring a selfie stick for those perfect shots.
Book a makeup appointment
Regardless of where you’re staying, book a makeup artist near the wedding venue. This strategy helps maintain your look, avoiding the effects of heat or a long commute. If you’re traveling by car or booking a ride, that works too.
Bring your mint
A highlight of Yoruba weddings is the dance period, characterized by vibrant music and lively celebration. After the couple’s first dance, join in with your mint (new currency notes) to joyously ‘spray’ the couple, in accordance with your budget.
Embrace the celebration
As the preparations come to a close, the stage is set for an unforgettable experience. Dressed in your meticulously chosen aso ebi attire, you’re not just a guest but an integral part of the vibrant tapestry that makes a Yoruba wedding so special. These weddings are more than just ceremonies; they are a rich blend of culture, joy, and communal celebration.
The beauty of a Yoruba wedding lies not just in the visual spectacle but in the shared experiences and the sense of community it fosters. As you step into the venue, allow yourself to be swept up in the rhythm of the day. The laughter, the dance, the music, and even the flavorful aroma of traditional dishes combine to create an atmosphere that is both exhilarating and heartwarming.
Remember, this day is as much about creating memories as it is about celebrating the union of two souls. Engage with fellow guests, participate in the cultural rituals, and take a moment to appreciate the unique customs that make Yoruba weddings a beautiful embodiment of Nigerian heritage.
Finally, as the day unfolds, relish every moment. From the joyous ‘spraying’ of the couple with mint to capturing candid moments with friends and family, every aspect contributes to the tapestry of memories you’ll cherish. A Yoruba wedding is an experience that resonates beyond the event itself, leaving you with stories and smiles that linger long after the music fades.
So, step into the celebration with an open heart and a joyful spirit, ready to fully immerse yourself in the essence of a Yoruba wedding. This is more than an event; it’s a celebration of life, love, and community – a vivid memory in the making. Slay in your attire, shine in your unique way, and above all, enjoy every second of this beautiful day.
