Isreal Afeare, aka Isreal DMW, and his wife, Sheila Courage, have taken to the social media to spill the beans about their marriage!
Isreal is the Logistics Manager for Nigerian artiste Davido.
Isreal says:
Marrying a lady because you met her during evangelism as a virgin, a pastor’s daughter, a member of the same church, might not guarantee anything peace at all.
Don’t be too eager or quick to trust people. People can change at any time. People can be very ungrateful and deceptive.
I met Sheila on February 19, 2022. We became friends, which later became intimate.
She told me she would only lose her virginity to the man that would marry her since her Ugep, Cross River, mother, who’s now 41, had earlier married two different men, with two kids, before marrying her father and that she was overdue at 21 for marriage.
We fully agreed with her terms and conditions. I immediately upgraded her unkept situation by giving her 300k and replacing her tattered phone of less than N60k with a new iPhone 12 Pro Max of N860k in less than two weeks.
I later also replaced the 12 Pro Max with a brand [new] 14 Pro Max of N1.2m that she uses to slay. I did a lot of shopping for her. Bought her clothes and bags, including expensive human hairs she’s using without sleeping with her then.
I later proposed, and she fully accepted. We later did a legal introduction to traditional and white weddings in Benin City.
Sheila immediately changed by showing her authentic self after our wedding and wanting to set standards for me.
She now felt she was blown, fully verified on Instagram, with more followers from her earlier struggling 3k followers when I met her.
A fully sapa girl I met with just N2,700 in her [bank] account.
I have never raised my hands on her any day. I don’t beat women at all. I respect them so much.
The least money for her upkeep was 100k. She now wakes up to tell me that I derive dignity in begging my Oga, that I am fully a slave, and that I am disgracing her on social media.
I had earlier taken her to show same Oga for the first time before we wedded when we were in Abuja Transcorp Hilton, and Oga asked her straight forward if she was ready for marriage, and she fully answered by saying yes and Oga immediately gave her N500k for airtime.
Oga was fully present in Benin for my wedding, after cancelling a N140m show appearance.
In response, Sheila said:
Since Isreal has decided to bring this whole issue online let me start dropping evidence, You said I forced you to marry me because I was a virgin.
Should I also tell the whole world how you are a 2 mins man? Just few days ago you were begging me to forgive you, now you took
I was going to keep my reserve on this but as it is, I see no reason to.
Did I see signs before the wedding? Yes I did, one of the reasons was because of the rush on the wedding even after I said we should give it time! He came up with a lot of excuses and threats.
Most of the things he did regarding the wedding was without my consent! Down to invitation card! I didn’t even get to see what the design looked like before it was printed. I only get to find out about stuffs after it’s been paid for, we had a fight that I told him that it seems it’s his event planner he wants to marry because they’re not carrying me along.
Proceeding to the wedding there was a huge turn up! It was elaborate. Was that what I even wanted? No! But oga said he’s a public figure people eye dey so he has to do it big!
(The white wedding)
The wedding happened and the wedding day passed now na see us see marriage. He started showing up as his real self in full. He would be traveling and ask me not to put on gen, not to go anywhere, don’t do this don’t do that.
I got home and the gateman refused to open gate for me, say oga say make he no open gate, I called him on phone he said I should go back to where I am coming from.
I was outside the gate frustrated and ashamed! I called his dad and reported him, his father called me back to tell me that isreal is insulting him, the father complained back to me, I asked my cab to start driving me around while I was calling him to ask the gateman to open the gate!
After the plenty calls from his dad and me he finally instructed the gateman to open the gate, I took the walk of shame back into the house, when he got back home that day I was so hurt I could not say anything till the next day I told him calmly that no matter issue wey we get make outsider no know, that even if I did something wrong come back inside and correct me, I explained how hurt and how embarrassing it was. He didn’t say anything
but apologized after some days
No one aside the people on the street and neighbors knew about this. I didn’t know it was going to happen again! And again! And again! And again! Both the church and families got involved to resolve issues regularly everyone (family) kept saying oh you shouldn’t be quiet on things like this always call us, always talk to us.
At some point he stopped me from visiting my parents or my siblings from visiting…
