While many women may accept the status quo and settle for less, there are trailblazers like Barrister Abolanle [Bola] Matel-Okoh who refused to be limited by societal expectations. With unwavering determination and resilience, she is shattering glass ceilings and redefining what’s possible.
A highly accomplished legal expert, Barrister Matel-Okoh holds an LLB (Hons) degree from Olabisi Onabanjo University. She was called to both the Nigerian Bar and the New York State Bar and has over three decades of experience as a legal practitioner. Her versatility, prowess, and dedication to her craft make her a true force to be reckoned with.
Early years
Bola was born into the esteemed family of Chief Kessington Adebukunola Adebutu, popularly known as ‘Baba Ijebu’. As the daughter of a highly respected industrialist and businessman, she had a privileged upbringing. Her father’s visionary leadership led to the establishment of a gaming company known as the Premier Lotto Limited (PLL). However, despite being born into wealth, Bola was determined to forge her own path and build a lasting legacy.
From legal assistant to bank director
She started her career as a legal assistant at the United Commercial Bank in Lagos, Nigeria. Due to her relentless focus on client satisfaction and a proven track record of delivering results-driven solutions, in 2015, she was appointed to the board of Wema Bank as a non-executive director.
According to reports, she has a 4.54 percent stake in Wema Bank and since her appointment, she has been bringing her extensive experience and strategic guidance to drive the bank’s growth and success.
Empowering women to excel
If you’re looking for a woman who excels in multiple areas, Barrister Bola is a shining example. As the CEO of BMO Advisory Services, she leads a team of professionals who provide coaching and self-development training for executive women.
Her certification from the GEMSTONE Leadership Institute enables her to guide others towards personal and professional excellence.
While narrating her passion about helping other women, she said, “Being an executive woman is more than just a title; it’s about embodying a powerful presence that exudes leadership, value, and purpose.
Through coaching, I’ve seen firsthand the transformative power of relaxation and self-care in enhancing mental resilience, overall happiness, and high productivity.”
Building a business empire
Extending her reach beyond the realms of law and corporate leadership, her innovative drive has propelled her to achieve remarkable success in real estate development. Bola is the CEO of Havilah Ventures, where she directs and oversees real estate development, corporate branding, and health and wellness enterprises.
Motivated by her expanding property holdings, she pursued and secured her real estate certification from the prestigious Weichert School of Real Estate in New Jersey, USA, broadening her understanding of the international market.
Balancing family and career
Most women often find themselves torn between meeting the needs of their loved ones and pursuing their professional goals. Societal expectations, gender roles, and personal aspirations can create a complex web of responsibilities, guilt, and pressure. So, sometimes, balancing a career and family life can be challenging. However, Bola is a shining example of a woman who has cracked the code on balancing career and family life.
Despite her impressive professional success, she remains deeply devoted to her loved ones and takes immense pride in caring and nurturing her home.
Speaking on her secret tip, she said, “The concept of work-life balance is not a one-size-fits-all. But you must understand that the ‘sweet point’ in your work-life balance is unique to you. What really matters and will bring joy and fulfilment is different for everyone. Also, it depends on what season of your life you are in and the sacrifices you are willing to make in that season.”
She also emphasized the importance of intentionality in achieving success. “Your values shape your choices, which in turn determine your level of success. My core values are integrity, loyalty, excellence, consistency, and faith. Among these, being exceptional in your endeavors is what sets you apart and leads to success.”
Awards and nominations
Bola’s impressive accolades continue to grow. In 2023, she was recognized as a Super Achiever and crowned Peak Performing Woman of the year. Some months ago, she was named one of ABCD Africa’s 100 Most Impactful Voices and featured among Lead Ladies Africa’s 100 Most Inspiring Women. These prestigious recognitions represent just a few of the many awards and honours she has received.
Excelling through strategic networking
Barrister Bola founded the Women’s Lifestyle’s Hub, which is a community platform that offers professional mentorship and networking ideas to members.
According to her, the pace at which any individual can excel in their career depends on how strategic they are in building the right relationships.
“Your vision will create the opportunity for connection. Be intentional, authentic, and consistent in networking. Focus on building mutually-beneficial relationships, stay open to learning, and regularly nurture your connections,” she counselled.
